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Falling for a Narcissist. Part 2.

Falling for a Narcissist: A Victims Perspective (Part 2) A relationship with a Narcissist can be a devastating and mind-boggling affair, that can take many years to process and can prove incredibly damaging for the victim. This sinister ‘Switcher-Roo‘ of relationships, where nothing is quite as it…


Coercive Control

What does it look like? My experience of coercive control, both on a personal level and in listening to the experiences of those I support and have supported over the years, is more often that not a silent power which makes it extremely difficult to spot - which is of-course intended by design. At…


What is Choice?

What do we mean by Choice? How much Choice do you believe you have in your life? How often do you exercise your right to Choose? You arrived on this earth as an individual. You will depart this earth as an individual, For everything in between, whether you realize it or not, whether you believe it…


Working after Trauma

The flexible working environment of a third sector post often appeals to people who are on a journey of recovery after trauma. Trauma changes you inside. Situations, places and people that may feel perfectly safe to someone who hasn't experienced trauma, can feel threatening and unsafe to someone…


Two Wolves

Having just learned that the love of his life had been killed in a hit and run car accident, a man sat on the hospital steps with his head in his hands, devastated and sobbing uncontrollably. After a few minutes, he sensed someone standing close by, so peered out from between his fingers to see a…